Have you asked yourself “what is mindfulness?”
The word “mindfulness” seems to be everywhere lately. It appears on magazine covers, in books, and on TV shows. You hear about it through doctors, through celebrities, and through business leaders. It is being taught in schools, in companies, and in health and wellness facilities.
We live in a turbulent world. Mindfulness has exploded in popularity because the benefits are well-documented and vast. Mindfulness can reduce stress, anxiety, and depression and help you be calmer. It can lead to clearer thinking, a sharper memory, and an improved ability to focus. Being more mindful can even lead to physical benefits, such as better sleep quality and a stronger immune system.
In this article, we will answer the question of “what is mindfulness.” You will also learn which activities can help you practice it. (The answer will surprise you.)
The definition of mindfulness- from Jon Zabat-Kinn
One of the most widely accepted definitions of mindfulness comes from Jon Kabat-Zinn, PhD, Professor of Medicine emeritus at the University of Massachusetts Medical School. Dr. Kabat-Zinn developed Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), a secular program that combines mindfulness meditation, body awareness, and yoga. He defines mindfulness as “paying attention in a particular way: on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.”
My definition of mindfulness
A definition of mindfulness that I like to share is “deliberate, focused attention on the present moment.”
To truly be mindful, you need to be deliberate with where you focus your thoughts. Mindfulness cannot occur without intention. Another key is that you need to be focused. You cannot be distracted. Finally, you need be in the present moment. You cannot be ruminating about the past or worrying about the future. This is often easier said than done.
Another way to define mindfulness is by looking at its opposite: mindlessness. Here are five common examples of not being mindful:
- Eating breakfast while you commute to work
- Playing with your phone while you exercise
- Thinking about your evening plans while you attend an afternoon meeting
- Watching television while you study or do work
- Checking emails while you attend a conference call
The common thread in these examples is trying to do and/or think about two different things at the same time. When you try to multitask, you are not focused and fully present in the moment. As a result, you are not being mindful.
Awareness vs. mindfulness
Awareness is not necessarily the same thing as mindfulness. Let me share an example from a business networking event that I attended recently. At one point, I was in a conversation with a former co-worker who was scanning the room to see who else was there. Maybe she thought it would be more valuable to be speaking with potential clients at the event, rather than me.
She might have been aware that she was speaking with me. However, she was not mindful during our conversation. Her attention was clearly divided.
Mindfulness is focused awareness. You are being mindful when your thoughts and behavior are completely in sync.
Which activities help you practice mindfulness?
Mindfulness is usually associated with certain activities, like yoga, meditation, journaling, reading, and spending time in nature. However, your approach is more important than the actual activity. Even things typically linked to being mindful can be performed in a mindless way.
For example, if you spend an entire yoga class wishing you were somewhere else, did you really practice mindfulness?
As another example, let’s say that you go for a walk on a beautiful trail, but you spend the entire time thinking about an upcoming meeting. Were you really mindful during that hike?
It is natural for your mind to begin to wander. The key is to recognize when you have lost focus. Then, re-direct your attention back to the present.
Any activity can be done mindfully (or mindlessly)
There are an endless number of ways to practice mindfulness. You can practice while eating, while working, while spending time with friends or family, or even while cleaning your kitchen. It’s all about your approach and intention. The actual activity is less important.
Despite what some people might think, you can even be mindful during activities that are aggressive and not gentle.
For example, you have to practice mindfulness while lifting very heavy weights and doing other forms of athletic training that are complex and uncomfortable. The difficulty of the activity requires a “deliberate, focused attention on the present moment” (my definition of mindfulness). Otherwise, performance declines, and there is a risk of serious injury.
Easier, gentler forms of exercise are actually more likely to be associated with mindless behavior. You are much more likely to see someone playing with their phone while they cruise along an elliptical than while they do a more complex, difficult movement. Exercise is one example of how anything can be done mindfully or mindlessly.
Summary and final thoughts
What is mindfulness?
Well, it is not as complicated as it might seem. My definition is “deliberate, focused attention on the present moment.” You could also think about it as “focused awareness.”
Meditation and yoga are two common ways that people practice mindfulness. However, any activity can be done mindfully (or mindlessly).
If you would like to reap the rewards of being more mindful, you could start by picking one activity that you do each day. That could be eating lunch, talking with someone close to you, performing a certain task at work, or something else.
Once you have something in mind, set an intention to focus all of your attention on that activity when you are in the moment. If and when you notice your mind start to wander, don’t fret. Just re-direct your attention to the present. Like anything, the only way to get better at mindfulness is with practice.
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About the author: Pete Leibman is a consultant, speaker, and author who helps leaders and companies thrive. He is the creator of StrongerHabits.com and he’s the bestselling author of Work Stronger; Habits for More Energy, Less Stress, and Higher Performance at Work. Before writing Work Stronger, Pete worked as an executive recruiter at Heidrick & Struggles, a leadership advisory firm who serves the majority of the Fortune 500. In his free time, he teaches one of the largest group exercise classes in the Washington, D.C. area. He has also competed in the Obstacle Course Racing (OCR) World Championships.
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